Excuses, we are Kings and Queens of that, now aren’t we? But
why do we make up excuses? Is it because we are afraid of the truth? Well, I
believe we could not care any less about the truth and we are never intimidated
by it, the reason why we hide it is because we are afraid of the people. We are
social animals and we cannot live alone all by ourselves so we live in groups
and apparently the other group members can talk (Yeah that’s the worst part of
being human). So we tend to hide the truth and start making up excuses.
“Do you wanna go out tonight?” “No, I’ve got work” The Truth
– I’m insecure about myself and I personally think that I’m not a very friendly
person so I might end up embarrassing others including me. “Would you like to
dance?” “No I really can’t dance” The Truth – Everyone can dance for God’s sake,
it’s just moving hands and feet and I believe I’m quite good at it but you
might think I’m silly and a terrible dancer. A few examples of excuses that we
make up pretty often and there are others as well. Have you realized that this
society has paralyzed you? You cannot even be yourself just because you think
too much about what will others say, sweetie others don’t pay your bills, you
do. What is the worst thing that you think is gonna happen? They will make fun
of you or you’ll be single forever, something like that eh? Lemme tell you,
they make fun of you and they’ll continue to do so, you know why? It’s the only
way to make them feel good and superior about themselves. Ending up being
single forever, how is it so bad? Do you think any less of yourself? If someone
cannot accept you the way you are, he/she doesn’t deserve you already and if
you’re planning just to land a guy/gal just ‘cause you don’t wanna be alone for
the rest of your life then think again do you really wanna settle for that? Don’t
you have even a bit of self-respect? If you cannot love yourself enough to
spend the whole life with just you then how can you expect someone else to do
that? Isn’t that hypocrisy? They say truth hurts but I believe truth doesn’t
hurt, it’s possibly the most beautiful thing in this world, the reaction of
others towards the truth hurts.
So what is this truth anyway that we are so afraid to tell
anyone about? We don’t want to belittle ourselves, we don’t wanna break someone’s
heart or we just think that it’s the easier way out? Everyone is special, we
all have good and evil both in ourselves. There is good in everybody if we
cannot see that then it’s our eyes which are faulty. You think any less of you
because you are insecure about yourself then why would anyone do you any favor
of thinking any different? You were wrong/have made mistakes/can’t afford a
Prada/don’t have a BMW/don’t have a perfect body, well you are not the only
one. Be confident about yourself and be proud of who you are. If you have a
conscience and the minimum presence of mind to realize what is right and what
is wrong in this mankind then you are lucky enough. You are more than lucky to
be a part of this wonderful journey. So make it worthy and a memorable one,
after all you only get to live once and stop making excuses, be yourself and be
honest.
I do realize that it’s going to be a big and probably the
most difficult step to take. Now you are this person who is almost anti-social
because of the insecurities about your own self and other reasons or this
extremely social person because you have so much pain in your heart which you
can hide only via interacting with others, even though it doesn’t make any
sense, and all of a sudden you decide to become completely honest with yourself
as well as with the world, some might consider it to be rude but hey they’ll
learn too. I’m not saying to become a cut-throat inhuman, honesty with subtly
is the way to go.
So start your day with a Hello to yourself and spread the
love with an honest heart.
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