Secrets

Secrets

Secrets, well we all have secrets. Some are big, some are small in comparison. But the hardest thing about secrets is it’s really hard to keep them as secrets. So what if you have a secret? You try to hide it. Whenever anything related to that is mentioned; you change the topic. You can’t look into the eyes of the person from whom you are trying to hide it. You ramble for no good reason, you can’t sleep at night. You get so busy in hiding it that you forget to live your life without it. Yes we all have secrets. But secrets are only good when they are kept as secrets. What if somebody gets to know about it with or without your permission? They can take advantage of it. Will they take advantage of it? Well yes some mean-minded sick-hearted might do that. What about an Honest, Dedicated, Sane personality knows your secret? Well they turn into a complete different person after it. You won’t be able to recognize him/her as Honest, Dedicated or Sane anymore. So what do we do with our secrets? It’s hard to keep them; it’s even harder to let them out. Do we panic? Do we forget to eat, sleep or breathe when our secrets are not secrets anymore? No, we don’t. You know what they say;

“Sometimes you can be alone but not lonely and sometimes you can be lonely but not alone.”

That’s exactly how secrets make us feel.  Don’t let the other people taking advantage of you. What is the worst thing they can do? Say it out loud in front of the crowd, tell your parents about it, tell your boyfriend/girlfriend about it or just keep it as a secret while blackmailing you! Every single option is possible. Yes no matter how hard you try; you can’t keep up with this evil mind. At some point of time, you give up. Don’t even take that much time to give it a single thought. It’s not “giving up” it’s accepting a fact and sacrificing your ego. You had a life full of secrets and now everyone knows about it. So what? They’ll talk about it behind your back or maybe in front of you! Well people do that all the time, they don’t need an excuse for that. It’s basically their job as they don’t have anything else to do. You are Courageous, Successful and you have a life which they don’t. Let them be useless, let them talk, let them be vulnerable but don’t ever follow their path. You keep focusing on your Goal. One day you will be a Winner without any secrets and they will be just the people who used to talk behind your back about some useless matter which fades away in front of your winning glory.

“Extraordinary things happen to extraordinary people.”

All you have to do is believe in yourself. And remember that we all have secrets. People are just afraid to let them out and you are stronger than them. The people who stick with you even after knowing all your secrets, are the ones to cherish!